This is off the wall….

[Jocelyn]

Why do you insist on me being understanding, a better listener and now, to forgive this person who has done nothing but ruining my life and blocking my happiness? I reckon that this must be the wrong place for me, because I still need to get things right in my marriage, get him to apologize for his permanent foul mood and find a way to feel really supported, which of course I get nothing of. Why don’t you post about getting even?

[norafem]

Dear Jocelyn,
well, I get your frustration and anger, very clearly! and no, we don’t have planned any paper on “How to get even with your ……hubby” (perhaps in the future?)

The only comment I have here is that we can only control and manage our own change…when you change your way of dealing with hubby, you let him know that is not OK to be always surly and negative, inviting him to change or else.

And, perhaps, when you recover your own sense of personal power, you can see clearly what to do with hubby, either to continue with him or not.

Thanks for your candor, and please, keep posting!

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